There are several kinds of relationship that won't work, one of them is a money based relationship. In this kind of relationship. In this kind of relationship, money determines the tone, atmosphere, success or failure of
the relationship. Because of your instinct for self preservation, you make think that if a man gives you money,
he cares; but if he doesn't, he has no sincere feelings for you.
A man who says he loves you but you doesn't show it may just be taking you on a fool ride. If he has money but refuse to spend it on you, he is a selfish man. The relationship will not work. If he doesn't have money to spend on you, then judge him by his very best effort to impress you. Is he committed to you even though he hasn't got load of cash?
A man who shower you with money whether you need it or not may have a hidden agenda for you, Right now,all you may be interested in is how buoyant for your account is, but can you ask yourself if this guy really loves you or is he trying to buy you.
In this kind of money based relationship, you are not free to express your true feelings because you are scared that he may get offended and break up with you. So, if he cheats on you, you with other girls, hurt your feelings, disrespect, humiliate, despises or shame you, you keep quiet like a slave or because his money has become your god. As a servant of child of God, you deserve better than this.
You deserve to be treated with respect, honour and dignity. You should demand it from your man, it is your right. If he doesn't treat you with respect but gives you money to compensate for his bad behavior, you are in unhealthy relationship.
Several women naively believing that the man will still change went ahead and married him only to discover that whatever you permit grows worse with time. The man treated them worse than when they were in courtship.
Don't worry into divorce. Break up with this man now and believe God for a man that will love you genuinely and show it in the very best way he is capable of.
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