*THINGS THAT CHASE POTENTIAL SUITORS AWAY*

 *THINGS THAT CHASE POTENTIAL SUITORS AWAY*

 *DEMANDING OR FORCING COMMITMENT TOO EARLY*

So he has asked you out on a date or two, and he still hasn't asked you to marry him. It's not even up to a month since you guys became quite close and all... 

Aunty, calm down. Even if you like him already, even if you can't wait to be in a relationship, or to be in a relationship with him, don't let him sniff desperation around you.

As much as possible, let the commitment start from him, so you will be sure he is interested in you, and not that he is taking advantage of your OBVIOUS interest in him.

And also, this can spook him and make him run away like a scared animal. After 2 dates, you have used his picture as your  WhatsApp dp, even asking him when is he coming to see your parents, Aunty,  are you Russian?

 He is still making up his mind, he is still checking you out, and you should be doing the same too, not trying to hassle and force commitment out of him. Calm down, singlehood is not leprosy. 

He hasn't asked you out, you saw him with another lady, and you are demanding an explanation, an explanation of how the earth was formed, or an explanation of what exactly?

You traced the lady you saw him with to her Facebook page, and send her a message to stay away from your Man, which Man? Are you a serial killer?

Enjoy the journey, enjoy the attention and budding friendship, and try not to involve your heart or show it too early till you are sure of certain things (red flags, yellow flags, his character, compatibility, etc)

Don't be that lady who when a guy makes the "mistake" of calling her more than once a day, she starts to date him in her mind. Aunty, you see love and Relationship, it Is sweeter and deeper when given time. 

Real relationships are like beans, they require a little more time to cook, and the relationship is not instant noodles... Be Patient