𝗗𝗘𝗔𝗥 𝗟𝗔𝗗𝗜𝗘𝗦, 𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘 𝗜𝗦 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗕𝗜𝗧𝗧𝗘𝗥 𝗧𝗥𝗨𝗧𝗛 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗠𝗨𝗦𝗧 𝗦𝗪𝗔𝗟𝗟𝗢𝗪 🤔😊🧚💏

 𝗗𝗘𝗔𝗥 𝗟𝗔𝗗𝗜𝗘𝗦, 𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘 𝗜𝗦 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗕𝗜𝗧𝗧𝗘𝗥 𝗧𝗥𝗨𝗧𝗛 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗠𝗨𝗦𝗧 𝗦𝗪𝗔𝗟𝗟𝗢𝗪   🤔😊🧚💏

1. 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗸𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗻, 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲, 𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗻 360% 𝗼𝗻 𝗯𝗲𝗱, 𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗱𝘂𝗺𝗽 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 𝗕𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘂𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗹 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝘁𝗲, 𝗶𝗳 𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗾𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝘄𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂.🧑‍🤝‍🧑💘  

2. 𝗔 𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘄𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗰𝗮𝘀𝗵 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿. 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝘀𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗳𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆.💰💰✅ 

 3. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗮𝘂𝘁𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗼 𝗮 𝗣𝗮𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗲. 𝗕𝗲𝗮𝘂𝘁𝘆 𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘀 𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗸𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺.💏

  4. 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝗶𝘁𝘀 𝗺𝗲𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘀 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗻𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗰𝗵𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗺𝗲𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲.🧚🤍🤍 

 5. 𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗲𝘅𝘆 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗮 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮 𝗵𝘂𝘀𝗯𝗮𝗻𝗱, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗮 𝗯𝗼𝘆𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱.🤍💕 

 6. 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲, 𝘀𝗲𝘅 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗱𝘂𝗰𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲, 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗱𝘂𝗰𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘀𝗲𝘅.💋💋 

7. 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲.🥀✨  

8. 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗻'𝘁 𝗯𝘂𝘆 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗿𝘀, 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗮𝗹 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆🧚✨.  

9. 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗱𝗱𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂.🤍✨ 

FOUR CLASSES OF WOMEN THAT MAY NOT GET MARRIED

 FOUR CLASSES OF WOMEN THAT MAY NOT GET MARRIED

There are different habits that may hinder a lady from getting married. But here, I'm not going to talk about “Habits”of a lady but rather about “Kinds” of Ladies that face late marriages and most times, No Marriage. Below are the four kinds of ladies that face late marriages and the answers that work.

1. The Perfect Lady

Here, the Perfect Lady do not imply that the Lady herself is perfect. But rather, their expectation of their dream man is too high that they kept being selective on the type of man that they want. 

Most times, the person they love may not like them, and the person that likes them, may not be their love. 

Those Perfect Ladies always want»»», A Tall, Rich, Caring & Handsome man and if the lady is spiritual, she will be waiting for “ *A Perfect Man Without A Weakness* ”. Any woman that misses any of the four qualities ends up being rejected.

#Their Problem: The problem such ladies faces is that they end up loving the “Container” instead of the “Content”.

#The Solution: Accommodate a man who possess at least 50% of the qualities you desire, the rest will develop with love.

2. The Beautiful Lady : A beautiful lady is attractive to the eye. They are victims of multiple relationships. 

Most guys that date beautiful ladies date them for fun. The attractiveness of a lady makes it difficult for her to keep herself for a man. This is because of temptation from men, knocking left, right and centre.

# Their Problem : The problem beautiful ladies face is that no one really loves them for who they are but likes their beauty and men doubts their ability to make a good home. This poses a threat for them to marry because most men considers a beautiful lady as a flirt.

# The Solution: Have a picture of the kind of man you really want to marry. You are lucky that you are beautiful, because you will get proposals from various kinds of men; so be ready to identify that man whom you like to marry. Be loyal to him. He will be proud to marry you.

3. The Rich Man’s Daughter

 The rich man’s daughter bask on the euphoria of her father’s wealth. As far as she’s concerned, her father is her hero and no man can replace her father's love and care. She believes that every man that is running after her is after her father's  wealth. So this makes them unattractive to men. Men are naturally proud and will not like to muddle their hard earned reputation on such an insult. 

# Their Problem: Most rich men’s daughter marry late or marry the wrong man.

# The Solution: The humility of a rich man’s daughter is her greatest weapon to attract men. Men will naturally be drawn to you, if you are humble. Your beauty is secondary.

4. The Career Woman: These ladies are hardworking, ambitious and successful in life. They may be feminist. They are the champions of this saying, “What a man can do, a woman can even do it better”. Marriage is not their headache but career.

# Their Problem: The problem of career women is time management. They run everything in life like business,  even relationship. Secondly, they always want to be the Boss in all things and this poses a threat to men. The more masculine a lady behaves, the less attractive she is to a man. No man wants to marry another man.

# The Solution: Every Career woman, cries in her closet. She prays for a man who will love and treat her like a woman. Your cry is over, woman! Simply be submissive at least to a man. Avoid arguments with him. And be more feminine in your outlook. These are what you need to make a man marry you.

DATE/MARRY YOUR TYPE

 DATE/MARRY YOUR TYPE

A lot of people make the mistake of dating/marrying someone who is not their type. Compatibility matters a lot in every relationship/marriage. 

If you like hanging out, date/marry someone who likes hanging out too. If you love sex so much, date/marry someone who loves sex too. Date/marry someone who likes the things you do.

A lot of marriages have broken down because they are not compatible.

Don't be deceived by material things. Marry your type. It is better to be single, than to marry and divorce. God hates divorce! Therefore, marry the right person and enjoy your marriage. Avoid making a wrong choice. Remember, marriage is a lifetime commitment. Once you are in, you are not expected to come out.

Choose wisely!

MEN AND SEX

 MEN AND SEX

Believe it or not women find it difficult to understand the reason why men love sex.

* If they want to help you, they will demand for sex.

* If they say they love you, they want sex.

* You mistakenly sleep over, they want sex.

* They want to borrow money from you, they want sex.

* They want to give you a job, they want sex.

* They want to give you a pass in your exams, they want sex.

First of all, you need to understand the system of men. They didn't ask for that because they didn't create themselves.

Do you know that 95% of healthy men wake up with an erection? Did they bargain for that? No!

Do you know that the penis has a mind of its own?

A man could be reading his Bible and his penis will just stand.

A man can be sleeping and wakes up with an erection.

A man could be sleeping, once you start rubbing the penis, it

stands even when he is still asleep.

Have you ever asked yourself why men are not on periods, cramps or any bad moods? That's how God created them.

A man is naturally always ready for sex. Rub a man on his head, he already thinks you want sex.

Wink at him, he's already seeing you naked.

Wave at a man walking with his wife, he will loose focus.

This is nothing spiritual. It's not about, "ln Jesus Name or Holy

Ghost Fire".

That's why real churches do not allow ladies with short dresses to sit in front, because they will confuse the Pastor.

Men did not manufacture the high libido by themselves.

We are all created in God's image. The only man that overcame the sexual urge according to the good book was Jesus Christ. Joseph's own was that, he didn't just ran away,

he fled!! Jesus is Lord and on top of that, He was very careful not to include a woman among His disciples.

So many great men have fallen because of sex. Do you think they wanted to?

Soldiers in the war front will develop the urge for sex. To show you how bad it is, so many soldiers were killed during

wars because a woman lured them inside bush.

SHOULD I CONTINUE?

 SHOULD I CONTINUE?

In every relationship, there is a stage to ask yourself "Should I Continue"?

Because it takes absolutely nothing to fall in love. To fall in love is free but to sustain love requires "discipline and dedication"

In a relationship or courtship there is a stage..

√ To Accept what is...

√ To let go off what is not meant to be..

√ To have faith in what will be ....

SHOULD I CONTINUE?

∆ If you can't have free conversation or dialogue, there is no need to continue..

∆ If after some years the relationship is still not looking like something that has a future, then there's no need to continue on that journey because you'll end up wasting more years of your life that you can't get back.

∆ When family background, class or social status is used against you, then you need to watch it...

∆ If the love and the energy you give is not reciprocated, there's no need to continue.

∆ If you don't trust each other, you can't plant the seed of love. Because love is like a ''seed'' planted on a soil( Trust).. Where there's no trust, there's no love.

∆ If you're not compatible, especially in reasoning and understanding, then there is no need..

∆ If two lovers can't seat down and sort out their issues together, then what are you doing?

∆ In a  relationship where you can't express yourself, opinions and visions are not respected, you need to have a rethink whether to continue..

∆ When their words don't match their actions, there's no need to continue. Don't be naive.

∆ One week, one problem, silent treatment, comparison, gas lighting, toxicity, cheating, lies, you beg for attention, no communication, bad character, physical abuse, emotional torture & manipulation in the relationship then I wonder why you still want to continue.

∆ If your relationship have not affected or impacted your life positively, in character, spiritual consciousness, social domain and success in life..

There is no need to continue.

I CAN'T WAIT TO GET MARRIED

 I can't wait to get married

😊😊😁😁

So that my wife will wear a sexy mini skirt on a Saturday to seduce me

😋😋😋😍😍😍

When she is washing my cloths she will be like "honey help me with hanger"

🙈🙈🙈

Then I will come out to give her the hanger and I will smile and say "OMG you look good"

😍😍😍

After that I and her will enter the kitchen and she will start frying chicken

😊😊😊

While she is frying the chicken then i will hold her from back....

🥰🥰🥰

And she will be like "oh Baby wait let me finish frying this chicken first"

🤩🤩🤩

And she will be like "Are you not hungry?" 

I will smile😁😁😁

And look into her eyes And say "baby U are more important than this Food"

😎😎😎

And I will be like "Thank God For giving me a wonderful woman like you" 😊😊😊😊

After that...

I will carry her And we enter Bedroom

❤❤❤

And...........And..............And.........

😋💃🕺🏿😃 

The food will burn and the house will catch fire

🔥🔥🔥 

then we run out naked

🏃🏃🏃

with boxers and pants in our 

hands. 

😂 😂 😂 

Then we build another house and continue our thing😋😋💯🙏👑

LOVE COMES WITH EVIDENCE

 LOVE COMES WITH EVIDENCE

When a person truly loves and care about you, you don't need to remind them of taking care of you because they'll willingly make time for you no matter how tight their issues might be.

💘 When there's love, there's no excuse not to show it.

💘 When you're not taken serious by a person, it means you're not the first on their list.

💘 When you mean a lot to someone, there'll be evidence.

Nobody is too busy! 

It's a matter of how important you mean to them.

Don't be deceived, Value brings about care...When a person doesn't care, its obvious that your value is not known.

Turn back and go to where you'll be celebrated, where someone will need more of you and stop hurting yourself. 

MOBILE PHONE ETIQUETTE

 MOBILE PHONE ETIQUETTE 

1. When you miss your special one, call him/her. "I miss you" means nothing if you don't do anything about it

2. Sometimes what your spouse wants is not even an hour long phone conversation from you. A one or a few minutes phone call is enough to brighten up your spouse's day

3. If you two are in a long distance relationship, don't ignore or stop calling; especially if phone calls are the only way to connect

4. Don't always text and chat. Sometimes make that phone call, it is more intimate 

5. Don't attack your spouse with words such as "Where have you been, the phone call rang for a while? What have you been doing?" It makes your spouse defensive at the onset and communicates you are quick to suspect your spouse simply for picking the call seconds late

6. If you see your spouse's missed call, return them

7. Don't order your spouse to give his/her phone to the person near them to prove what they are saying is true. It is demeaning

8. Start phone calls warmly and end phone calls warmly. It makes your spouse enjoy talking to you

9. Before you tell your spouse what you called him/her for, find out how he/her is. It shows care. Don't just go straight at saying "Send me money for fuel, I am stuck"

10. Don't make it a habit to always walk away from your spouse when speaking to someone else over the phone. Your spouse might think you are hiding something 

11. Don't be harsh when talking to your spouse over the phone, especially when he/she is in public. It will make your spouse avoid picking up your calls

12. Sometimes video call your spouse, to show your spouse you wanted to see his/her smile and to share a moment 

13. Don't hang up calls on your spouse, even if you two have an argument. It communicates disrespect. If you two are having a not so pleasant conversation, you can say "Hun, I don't think this conversation is going well. I love you. Please allow me to end the call, we will talk later". That thoughtful ending alone will help you two solve the issue maturely

14. Let it not be that your spouse can hear you enjoying talking to another on phone calls but you rarely call him/her or when you do, it lacks warmth

15. Let your phone conversations have warmth, the right tone, humour, interesting content, courtesy and appreciation. This way, you two will look forward to phone connections

16. Remember that communication is not about how many times you phone call each other, but the quality of those phone calls 

17. Remember you two are blessed to have mobile phones and technology to connect. Many people in the past didn't have this privilege; make good use of it

Be smart with your smart phone

SOME MEN DON'T UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF HAVING A GOOD WOMAN

 Some men don’t understand the importance of having a good woman that genuinely cares for you. Not the sex, not the money, or anything material, but YOU! When she really likes you she will accept your flaws and do things to help you become a better man. 

Not because she wants something from you but because she truly has your best interest at heart. Don’t mess that up or take it for granted because if you do you will miss out on the GENUINE CARE that you won’t be able to get back. Women like this are hard to find these days.❤️

FINDING A HUSBAND IS HARD.

 FINDING A HUSBAND IS HARD.

1. You find a handsome one, the brain is empty.

2. You find a brilliant one. He looks too serious.

3. You find a rich one, he is disrespectful.

4. You find a hard-working one, he never has time for you.

5. You find a serious one, his EX keeps calling.

6. You find a humble one, he is broke.

7. You find a responsible one, he is not romantic.

8. You find an educated one, he feels he is always right.

9. You find an illiterate one, he always gets angry whenever you correct him.

10. You find a smart one, he lies every time.

16 THINGS MEN LEARN TOO LATE:

 16 THINGS MEN LEARN TOO LATE:

1. The less you say, the more your words will matter.

2. Don't take everything personally. Not everyone thinks about you, as much as yourself does.

3. When you focus on problems, you'll have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you'll have more opportunities.

4. No matter how much it hurts now, someday you will look back and realize your struggle changed your life for the better.

5. There will always be a reason why you meet people. Either you need them to change your life or you're the one that will change theirs.

6. Never be afraid to try something new because life gets boring when you stay within the limits of what you already know.

7. When you are ignored by a person whose attention means the most to you, the reaction in your brain will be similar to physical pain.

8. Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.

9. Once you begin to take note of the things you are grateful for, you begin to lose sight of the things that you lack.

10. If you do not have control over your mouth, you will not have control over your future.

11. Life is a mirror and will reflect to the thinker what he thinks into it.

12. Life is ten per cent what happens to you and ninety per cent how you respond to it.

13. The only person you have to face in the morning is yourself.

14. Nothing feels as good as something you do from the heart.

15. You are a reflection of the 5 people you spend the most time with.

16. Your potential is directly correlated to how well you know yourself.

May God bless you 🙏🙏🙏

HOW TO SURVIVE IN A LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

 HOW TO SURVIVE IN A LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

The word survive is used because everyone's desire is to live within reach of their partner. But sometimes life gives you a good partner yet circumstance separates you physically. How do you cope?

1. TRUST EACH OTHER 

Trust is the reason that will keep the fire burning. Trust is not just blindly given, show you are trustworthy by being open, having a record of dependability and honesty, keep your partner on the know, share details. Do things that make you your partner secure. Let your partner know of your schedules over there. Be predictable

2. DATE ALOT ON THE PHONE OR ONLINE 

Unlike other more fortunate partners who get to meet each other so often to go on dates; make up for the lack or minimal frequency of physical connection by chatting and opening up with each other on the phone. This way, your fantasies and desire will remain directed towards your partner even though far apart. Let your cheeky and talkative ways come alive on the phone and online.

3. TALK ABOUT HOW IT HURTS

Share your feelings, say it when you feel low, pour your frustrations on each other brought about by the distance and walk together towards making it bearable.

4. HAVE A COMMON VISION

Define the future, where you two are heading to, talk alot about the future, the goal of why you are together, why you need each other; give each other a hope to hold on to.

5. COME UP WITH A TIME TABLE

You are distant from each other now but come up with a plan that will bring about a permanent solution where you two will finally be together for good. When there is no end in sight the heart gets tired of waiting for love to be within reach; but when a time frame is put, when the heart knows that the distance is only for 3 months, 6 months, a year, two years, that gives motivation to develop the love.

6. COMMUNICATE OFTEN

Use every available communication technology to warmly keep in touch as often as possible. Facebook, Twitter, Skype, Watsapp, Email, Text, Phonecall; don't let it be out of sight, out of mind, out in the cold.

7. PRAY TOGETHER 

Loving someone far away from you is tough. Pray together, commit your love to God, it will make the pain easy to bear. You are not physically where your partner is but God is.

8. MAKE AMAZING MEMORIES 

The few times you get to be together, make those moments so amazing that when you part, you will have good memories to keep you going as you look forward to meeting physically again to make new memories.

9. KEEP OFF TEMPTATIONS 

In as much as you love that person, a vacuum is left by that person not being physically present. Guard yourself so that you don't turn to another to meet your emotional and physical needs. No one wants a partner far away, we all want our needs met here and now but long-distance relationships call for discipline, loyalty and commitment. Hang in there, your partner wishes to be near you, but for now just be patient, soon your needs in love will be adequately met.

10. GROW YOURSELF 

Even as you wait for each other, life should not stall or stagnate. Don't feel bad and lonely to the point you forget you need to grow as an individual, before you grow as a couple. Take this time you are apart to build you just as your partner is far away advancing himself/ herself at work or study so that you two can have the best future.

Remember, love is not about how near or far you are to each other but having each other. Someone can be sleeping next to their spouse every night yet be unfaithful, another can be miles away and be faithful to their spouse. Each couple has their own journey, walk it together.

DEAR MEN::WHY ARE YOU LOOK AT VARIOUS WOMEN

 Dear men;

When you look at various women , there is always something that you can admire until you wish to sleep with her, something different from your wife’s. 

May be it is boobs especially if she is yet to bre.ast feed, may be it is hips, may be it is her lips , may be it is her complexion, may be it is her voice etc.

If you think you can keep going for every woman you desire; you will never have enough because every woman has something desirable. It is like going into a hotel with all types of foods and you decide you want to eat all foods , you will just end up sick. 

No one gets enough of wine if you think you can mix all wines, the best way to enjoy wine is to drink just one type that you really love and enjoy it forever.

Staying faithful has little to do with your woman, it has everything to do with you as a man. 

It is upon you to make a decision to stay faithful for the sake of the woman you love. It is up to you to treat one woman like a queen.

 A kingdom with more than one queen is divided and soon it will fall. 

Loving a million women amounts to nothing but loving one woman in a million ways makes you great.

There is a lot of happiness in faithfulness. It is so fulfilling to love one woman above all women . 

A rolling stone gathers no moss, and a man who keeps wandering from one women into another never finds true happiness in life...... Make a happy home my brothers.

God bless you immeasurably 😘

10 SIGNS OF A TRUE GIRLFRIEND

 10 SIGNS OF A TRUE GIRLFRIEND

1. True girlfriends are very jealous. If you are dating them, don't even flirt with another girl. (It hurts them a lot). 

2. They act like they are very mature on the first outing. But once they are free with you, believe me, they will give you headache. (They do so because they trust you).  

3. They don't need your money. Your sincerity to them matters a lot (that does not mean you won't buy something for them).  

4. They get angry for every little reason. They just want to hear that word "I'm sorry "(it means a lot to them). 

5. If they love you, they love you for real. But if they hate you, just forget it (go and download another love elsewhere). 

6. They don't cheat (these ones are wife material, but very rare).  

7. They Slay but they don't smoke, they drink alcohol little, they like clubbing little, once once.

8. They have the heart of an egg, easily broken (so don't hurt them). 

9. They help in planning your future with you because they want the best for you (marry them). 

10. They love when you hug them, kiss them deeply and whisper to their ears "I LOVE YOU ".

Stay intentional❣️

YOU ARE DATING AND YOU DON'T KNOW!

 YOU ARE DATING AND YOU DON'T KNOW! 

What is dating? dating is any social activity in which your romantic interest is focused on one particular person and that person interest is focused on you. 

Whether on the phone or face to face in the open or in secret, if you and a friend of the opposite sex have a special romantic understanding and communicate regularly. It's dating. 

Why do you want to date? 

In many cultures dating is regarded as a legitimate way for two people to become better acquainted. But dating should have honourable purpose to help a young man and woman determine if they want to get married to each other. 

Granted, some of your peers might take a casual view of dating. Perhaps they simply enjoy being with a special friend of opposite sex, without any intention of marriage. 

Some might even view such a friend as little more than a trophy or an accessory to be seen with in the public to boost their own self esteem. 

Such relationship are short lived. 

Many young ones who date break up with each other a week later. 

When you date someone, you're affecting that person's feelings. So be sure your intentions are honourable. 

Think: would you like someone to play with your feelings as if they were some child's toy - to be picked up for a moment and then quickly abandoned?

DEAR MEN: IT TAKES PATIENCE TO LIVE WITH A WOMAN

 DEAR MEN.

- It takes PATIENCE to live with a woman..

- It takes PATIENCE to love a woman.

MARRIAGE will TEST your PATIENCE as a man. Start building it now.

A woman can make you go late for EVENTS back to back because she will take 3hours to get ready, remember you only need 3minutes.

If you are not PATIENT, you will talk to her in a manner or do something you will regret later. 

A woman can Burst into TEARS just because you forgot to tell her I LOVE YOU before you dozed off to sleep.

A woman loves to talk, if you are not PATIENT as a man, you will SNAP one day and tell her woman, you talk TOO MUCH, Don't you ever keep quiet? And those words can damage a WOMAN'S SELF ESTEEM almost irreversibly.

A woman craves ATTENTION and PETTING, this can sometimes get on your nerves as a man and only PATIENCE will help you.

A woman can get angry, and you will use full 45minutes to be APOLOGISING, if you are not PATIENT you can't keep her..

She will say she is not hungry, then after you buy only one BABEQUE, she will be dragging it with you. 

You will both have a plate of rice before you, but she will leave her plate of rice and be eating yours. 

When she is on her MENSTRUAL PERIOD, you will see DRAMA, PATIENCE..

When she's PREGNANT, MAXIMUM DRAMA, PATIENCE..

You will run ERRANDS in MARRIAGE oo. HONEY SCRATCH MY BACK, HONEY HOLD ME, BABY TELL ME YOU LOVE ME, and you just said it 3minutes ago.

My brothers, truth is RELATIONSHIP and MARRIAGE will TEST your PATIENCE as a man. I have told you ahead. Carry patience and enter MARRIAGE.

Women are wonderful creatures. Fear WOMEN. This gender that will stand in front of a mirror just to CRY and CHECK if she is CRYING BEAUTIFULLY 😂 😂😂.

DATE SOMEONE WHO IS INTERESTED IN YOU

 𝗗𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 𝗜 𝗱𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗺𝗲𝗮𝗻 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝗿𝗲 𝗰𝘂𝘁𝗲 𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝘂𝗻𝗻𝘆. 𝗜 𝗺𝗲𝗮𝗻 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗮𝗶𝗹 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗲. 𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝗰𝗲𝗻𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗲. 𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝗰𝗮𝗿 𝘂𝗽𝗼𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗼𝗱𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺. 𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗼𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗽𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗲, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝗾𝘂𝗼𝘁𝗲𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗱𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺. 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁. 𝗙𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗮𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲.🫂🌼🌺🌼🌼💞💦

YOUNG MAN:: AVOID MATERIALISTIC WOMEN

 Young man:

Avoid materialistic women, if you don't want to be ruined

The cemeteries, jails, bars and betting houses are filled with men whose empires became ruins because of such women

When a woman is obsessed with materialism, it is not a matter of IF but WHEN she will bring you to ruin

Check what drives a woman, if she is driven by "competition" aka the need to flex and impress, she is bad news

A woman with an expensive taste, when she doesn't even have a source of income to feed her expensive appetite

Such a woman knows no loyalty, she will sell herself to the highest bidder

She is incapable of love, she only loves value, once the value ceases or decreases, she will move on to her next victim

Learn OR perish!!!

IF YOU FEEL LIKE GIVING UP, PLEASE READ THIS

 If you feel like giving up, read this:

1. This is a Phase.

Tough times are just a phase. They don't last forever. Life is a cycle of highs and lows. Remember, this too shall pass. You're in the middle of the storm now, but clear skies are ahead. Hold on.

2. You Are Stronger Than You Think.

Never underestimate your resilience.

- You've survived 100% of your bad days.

- Inside you, there is an inner strength.

- Your potential is greater than any problem.

Remember, you're stronger and more capable than you believe.

3. Small Steps Count.

Progress isn't always a leap forward. Sometimes it's tiny, almost imperceptible steps. Each step, no matter how small, brings you closer to your goal. Celebrate every bit of progress. Slow and steady can still win the race. Keep moving forward.

4. Remember Your 'Why'.

Think back to the reasons why you started. Reconnect with your motivation and your goals.

5. Failure is a Stepping Stone.

It's okay to fall but it's important to rise again. Every setback brings learning opportunities.  Remember, every great success story involves overcoming obstacles. Keep going. Your story is being written.

6. Practice Self-Care.

Self-care is essential, especially during tough times.

- Eat nutritious food

- Exercise regularly

- Get adequate sleep

- Connect with loved ones

- Engage in activities that bring joy.

It’s not selfish, it's survival. Your well-being matters.

7. It's Okay to Ask for Help.

Remember, you're not alone in this journey.

- Reach out to friends, family, or professionals

- Open up about your struggles

- Seek support when you need it

Strength isn't just about enduring in silence. It's also knowing when to ask for help.

To my friends and readers, Fight for yourself. No matter how difficult it becomes, never let yourself give in. After some time, your spark will eventually return. You will come out happier, healthier, and wiser. We are in this together.

CONSTANTLY SPEAKING TO YOUR EX WHEN YOU'RE IN SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP IS DISRESPECTFUL

 Constantly speaking to your ex while you’re in a serious relationship is disrespectful. 

Cut them off; delete their numbers; let them be in the past. 

It’s not enmity; it’s wisdom. You shouldn’t trust yourself with someone you used to love; someone you used to share everything, and for those into fornication, someone you used to sleep with. 

Constantly speaking to your ex isn’t bad by itself, but what could be the result of two ex-lovers in constant communication? You trust yourself too much. 

Boundaries don’t mean you’re enemies, it means that you’re wise enough to avoid every appearance and opportunity for future cheating.

Stay Intentional❣️

LADIES:: NEVER USE YOUR ASSETS ( BREAST AND BUTT) TO GET A MAN

 Ladies:

Never use your assets (breast and butt) to get a man, especially a man who belongs to another woman. How you get a man is a good indication of how you will lose him. 

A lot of men are butt chasers and breast watchers. Very few men are interested in a woman's mind, character or personality. 

Yes, 

The physical is what most men will notice about a woman first, but that's not enough to make a man fall in love with her. It will only make him lust to be with her. Share your mind with a man, not your assets. If you know what I mean?

To your continuous growth and wellness. 

❤️

A SPECIAL BIG SHOUT OUT TO ALL LADIES THAT LOVE DECENT GUYS

 I wanna appreciate all the ladies that love decent guys. The ladies that are attracted to guys that have goals, dreams and a legitimate future.

The ladies that do not manipulate guys who are loving, soft and caring.

Special shout out to the ladies who are not all about flashy things, but okay with building with their man and also building for themselves. 

I’m talking about the ladies that will love with all their heart when they find a man that is worth it. 

From the bottom of my heart, you are the real MVIP's.

You make the world a more sane and meaningful place without knowing.

God bless you.

To your continuous growth and wellness. 

❤️

IF SHE NOT YOUR CHOICE PLS DON'T UNDRESS HER & IMPREGNATE HER

 If She Is Not Your Choice Please Don't Undress Her & Impregnate Her. Don't Mess Up With Her Emotions & Dump Her After Sleeping With Her. 

The Same Advice Goes To You Ladies Also, If He Doesn't Have The Characteristics You Look For In A Man, Release Him. 

Don't Keep Withdrawing Money From Him & Using Him To Meet Your Needs When You Know Very Well That You Aren't Interested In Him.

A words is ok for wise human beings 

QUALITIES OF A GREAT WOMAN

 QUALITIES OF A GREAT WOMAN

✒️SHE IS INTELLIGENT 

 She opens her lips and oozes wisdom. One can have a hard and serious talk with her. She talks about personal development and growth. 

✒️SHE IS EMOTIONALLY  STABLE 

Yes, she may be hurt, feeling low and going through much, but she's a master of her feelings. She remains calm and collected. 

✒️SHE MULTIPLIES

She'll turn one hundred into a thousand, a thousand into a million. She doesn't sit pretty lazy waiting for things to be done fo her. 

✒️SHE LOVES  BEING LOVED

Yes, she is not waiting to be done for things, but when you love her and do good to her, she is receptive and appreciative. In as much as she loves to give, she welcomes being served and given too. 

✒️SHE LOVES  THROUGH  FOOD 

She will make attempts to cook the best meals. Tasty and delicious healthy foods for self and her loved ones and in the process, feed your soul too. 

✒️SHE'S FUN

Though she's intelligent, she can also act silly, crack jokes, tease, laugh; she is great company. A livery and charming person to stay around. 

✒️SHE KNOWS HOW TO CALL FOR HELP

When she's stuck or in trouble, she knows how to ask for help. She doesn't suffer alone. She knows not only how to ask for help and the right person to ask. 

✒️SHE'S A REFLECTION OF GOD 

You see her and see God, she's becoming more and more like God: loving, forgiving, graceful, strong valued and creative through God's Word and prayers. 

✒️SHE IS CONFIDENT

Whether she is an introvert or outgoing, she has a high self esteem. You can't bring her down. She has admirable qualities and walks head up without being cowed. 

✒️SHE FEEDS HER MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT

You will catch her often reading stimulating materials like books or novels, praying, eating the right foods, meditating and working out. 

✒️SHE KEEPS RELATIONSHIPS

She will have strong people surrounding her, whether a best friend, a clique of girlfriends or a bunch of close friends. She values relationships with friends and family.

5 THINGS EVERY COUPLE SHOULD KNOW

 5 THINGS EVERY COUPLE SHOULD KNOW

1. Women are naturally intuitive while men are rational. Everything has to make logical sense to men. Intuition may not always be right, your wife may not be able to logically explain why she is recommending or suggesting certain things to you, but do not discard what she says. So learn to LISTEN to your wife.

2. You have to protect your territory as a man. Men are territorial in nature and in this context, your territory is your wife. Protect her, don't leave her unguarded and tend to her needs.

3. If you are a lady, your husband is not "another lady". If you are a man, your wife is not "another man". Don't relate with your spouse like you are talking with your fellow gender. Your wife is not "your guy". 

4. When your wife is speaking, sometimes she's not asking for your solution. She just wants to talk. So don't cut her off while she's conversing with you, just enjoy the conversation. 

5. If you are a man and you are not spiritual, you are in a dangerous place. Don't leave all the praying and 'spirituality' to your wives alone. You would make more progress in your family when both of you prioritize the precepts of God in your home.

Stay blessed ❣️

YOU REJECTED A LOVELY GUY BCOS YOU SAID HE'S POOR::

 You rejected a loving guy because you said he's poor.; he is a Keke Rider. This guy is hardworking, but meanwhile, you're jobless. Your only job is that you're beautiful.

The guy's Keke is sold for 1.5 million, and he makes more than 20k every week, and you only make money when men send you money. 

He has an apartment of his own, and you're staying in someone else's house. 

He uses a cheap Android phone but pays his own bills, but you use an expensive iPhone and need people to send you data.

He sends money to home from time to time, but you ask your father and brothers for money when men don't give you.

The truth is that the guy isn't poor. You are the poor one.

He has a promising future, but your future rests behind you back and on your chest.

The next time you see a hustler, respect him. A Hustler is better than a pretender.❣️❣️

Just dey play ehh 🤣🤣

THERE'S NO PERFECT PARTNER ON EARTH

There's no perfect partner on earth. 🙄 Yes! Quote me any where.👌 The perfect couples you see are two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other, who are ready to see above their flaws and build on their home to make it an ideal home.🥰 What you define as perfect match is called selfless efforts of two persons added to love mixed with forgiveness for the purpose of building an ideal home. Your home too can become a dream/ideal home if you take responsibility and invest in it. Don't give up on each other. That's one of the secret to building a dream/ideal home..

Have a blessed day 

DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM YOUR EX

 Distance yourself from your Ex - Friend's.

Anyone that sincerely loves you, will never break your heart 💓 and will not leave because of misunderstanding.

Any love that doesn't cover multitude of sin as the Quran and Bible said is not true love and cannot be regarded as love .

He supposed to marry you and she was the one you desire to marry, but everything ended in separation, please give the person distance.

Most time people hold on to what that can destroy there MARRIAGE / RELATIONSHIP .

Are you Marriage please give your Ex  distance , most of them are elements that destroy Marriages and a successful relationship.

It's not compulsory both of you must still be friends, keep contact, visit each other . 

am not saying both of you should be enemy ,  but distance yourself from the person if you really want to maintain happy marriage or relationship . 

Any Ex that developed interest for you especially when you're married or in a happy relationship, has a target and a mission to accomplish, most of them can be caring about you and your welfare, frequently calling you on phone , taken you out , etc. But be careful with such Ex .

It's not every Ex that are happy with your relationship or marriage, don't welcome someone that will destroy your family.

DEAR WIFE...

 DEAR WIFE...

1. If you want your husband to make

love to you often, have a good

attitude. No matter how sexy you

look or dress, your husband will not

find you attractive if you have a bad

attitude.

2. If you want your husband to be

eating with you, be pleasant to be

around. No matter how tasty your

No matter

food, it loses taste when being

around you is stressful.

3. If you want your husband to be

opening up to you sensitive and

difficult information, learn to keep

secrets and not to overreact. 

A man refrains from sharing too much

when he is scared information will

be leaked or be misinterpreted.

4. If you want your husband to be

taking you out often, stop bringing

drama and ruining dates with issues

that should be dealt with at home.

No man wants to go spend time and

money at a venue where he will be

emotionally drained.

5. If you want your husband to solve

the issues in your marriage, stop

seeing yourself as the angel and him

the devil, stop attking him or

labelling him as "The agent the devil

is using to in your marriage". See

also your fault, show him you are on

the same team and seek solutions, 

not finger pointing

6. If you want your husband to 

come home early, be peaceful. 

The wife tends to own the home 

and so can easily make the 

husband keep off if she becomes 

harsh, uninviting and combative.

7. If you want your husband to be

chatting with you and calling you up,

be fun to talk to, make him miss you.

If each time he calls you or chats

you up it ends up with you starting a

fight, reminding him of his wrongs or

ordering him around he will avoid

communication with you.

8. If you want your husband to

 receive your suggestions and

corrections then speak to him with a

tone of love. If you come at him

shouting, dictating at him or

manipating him he will harden up.

9. If you want your husband to enjoy

kissing you, then speak loving

words, be gentle, be easy to talk to.

Lips that speak words that hurt are

not attractive to kiss.

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10. If you want your husband 

to do more sweet, romantic and 

special things; appreciate the 

little he does and he will do more. 

Complaining never inspires a 

man to do better but appreciation does.

May the lord bless your marriage 🙏

WHO IS A WIFE MATERIAL?

 WHO IS A WIFE MATERIAL?

A wife material is not just someone who can cook, wash your clothes or clean the house. Besides anyone can do that; you can always get a maid for that. 

A wife material is that woman, even when the world is against you she's got your back.

She's that woman who no matter how things get rough/tough you can always count on her. 

She is that woman even when you don't know who to turn to anymore, she's always telling you I'm here for you and will never let go. 

She’s never your pain. She is that woman who can turn your house into a home.  Not everyone can do it. 

Husbands please appreciate her if she’s one because they’re rare.

4 RELATIONSHIP DESTROYERS

 4 RELATIONSHIP DESTROYERS

1. Criticizing your partner every time by attacking, blaming, putting the fault on them, and throwing negative statements like " you can never do anything right"

2. Being so defensive and refusing to accept responsibility for anything and the response to feedback from your partner is always an attack.

3. Calling your partner names or making hurtful, sarcastic remarks.

4. Emotionally shutting down in the face of difficult discussions instead of openly addressing the issues.

If any of this is present in your relationship, please put in some work to destroy it before it completely destroys your relationship/marriage.

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FRIENDSHIP WITH YOUR EX CAN'T CONTINUE AFTER MARRIAGE

 ABOUT MARRIAGE AND EX-LOVERS!!!

Friendship with your EX can't continue after marriage. 

If they missed you so bad they should have married you instead of dumping you. 

Now that you are married, they should please step aside while you enjoy your marriage!

Some EX lovers are stubborn! They suddenly wake up, realized all the goodies they missed and start hunting for you in the name of friendship. 

If you are naive, you fall for their crap, go back to soothing them and helping them where their spouses have failed. Stories abound of married people having affairs with their EX. 

Adultery is the end result of that folly.

Emotions don't die. 

All the feelings you have for all your EX lovers haven't disappeared. 

They are simply surpressed. 

They are there, lieing dormant silently, noiselessly until the object of the emotional attraction shows up and there is an explosion! 

You suddenly discover you have hidden passion that can go haywire for an EX while still under your husband's roof or while you are married to the best woman in the world.

Guard your heart is what the holy book says. 

You have no single business with your EX after marriage. 

They made a choice not to marry you and now that you are happily married they should leave you alone and let you enjoy your marriage in peace...... 

Let's share to educate others 🙏.

DON'T TAKE WOMAN FOR GRANTED

 Don’t take a woman for granted if she is giving you too much attention. Just consider yourself lucky because maybe she loves you so much that she doesn’t want anyone else to take her place in your life. 

If she cries for you don’t think she is weak but

consider yourself lucky that she thinks you are worth her precious tears. 

If she is jealous of the other women around you don’t think she is insecure but she doesn’t want to see anyone else to be in your arms. 

If a woman says sorry to you even though it

was not her fault don’t think she fears losing you but she considers her relationship worth, than another chance and she doesn’t want anyone else to have your heart...

I know there may woman who like to barge and complain About, this massage is not for them

This massage is for those men that pray to have a good wife and everything 💕God finally bless them with a good wife .. you will start Maltreating her,

Just because you know that she love you more than you love her. 

Change now and build your home with love

Remember this 🙏👇

(wife) love you with or without money

But side-chick love your money not you😂 

AM I COMMUNICATING HERE ?????

•WHEN A GIRL LOVES...• ___

 •WHEN A GIRL LOVES...• ___

SHE LOVES FOR REAL..

A girl's love is like your mother's love: she protects you, thinks good and welfare of you, make you the king of her world and above all provides for you just to make sure you're fine and happy. 

People often says that..."Girls Don't Love " but I'm afraid, they were wrong..

Girls do love....even more deeper than the guys does! 

When a girl loves you, she will go all miles, fight all negativities and do all the impossible,,,,,,,, just to keep you smiling.

She will take you out and foot the bills..

Your joy and happiness will be her priority..

She Will never cheat on you....Even when she have a reason to.

If you never experienced this from a girl from school to the world, you missed..

She shows you true loyalty and always defend you before her friends. 

When a girl loves, she loves for real.

But those sets of girls are rare.. Because most times, the guys do take them either for granted, or tags them..."CHEAP" and "DESPERATE"

Value the heart that loves you...Beyond your flaws and attitudes

Because Nothing Will Ever Be More Beautiful Than The Love Of A Woman, For You..

14 RULES THAT SHOULD GUIDE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

 14 RULES THAT SHOULD GUIDE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

1. Never push a loyal woman to the point where she no longer cares

2. There is a difference between somebody who wants you and somebody who would do anything to keep you. Remember that.

3. Communication and trust are important if you want to secure your spot in someone’s heart.

4. Never fall in love with someone who left his girl for you because he might do the same and leave you for someone else.

5. A real man never gives up on the woman he loves with all his heart, no matter how much it hurts.

6. Don’t play with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of your own.

7. One of the worst mistakes you’ll make is walking away from the person who stood there and waited for you.

8. Just because one man treated you badly doesn’t mean all men will. Get this into your skull.

9. Be careful what you say. A girl remembers everything. They will never the good words have ever said to them but they will remember the bad ones you have ever spoken that is women.

10. When two people care about each other, they will always look for a way to make it work.

11. Love someone who loves you too.

12. So you better stop crying now.

13. Letting go isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a sign that you’re strong enough to move on.

14. It’s better to be alone for the right reasons than to be with someone for the wrong reasons. I sincerely have found out that any person who always sees reasons to give flimsy excuses is a great liar, be far from such a person.

I CAN'T DATE A BROKE GUY, BECAUSE HE CAN'T SPEND O. ME...

 I can’t date a broke guy, because he can’t spend on me…

But shishi, you no get, skill sef, you still don’t have.😎

Why feeling entitled to a guy’s money, just because you guys are dating? Him doing anything for you should come willingly not out of entitlement. 💞🌺🌺😚✨

However, if a guy truly loves you, he will willingly spend on you if he has, and same thing goes to men. If a girl loves you, she will willingly spend on you if she has. These things come naturally.🌻✍️🌻

If this post pain you, then you are guilty.🤣

MAKE IT LAST

 MAKE IT LAST 

1.  Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage

2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses.

3.  Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together.

4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 

5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other.

6.  Have lots of sex. Enjoy Sex with your spouse.  Never withhold sex as a punishment.

7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis.

8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly.  Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 

9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 

10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her.

HOW TO APPROACH A GIRL: 10 BEST WAYS

 How To Approach A Girl: 10 Best Ways

Approaching a girl can be an intimidating task, especially if you are really unsure of what to say or do. However, with the right approach, you can make a positive and memorable impression. 

In this introduction, we will explore some effective strategies for approaching a girl and making a connection that could lead to a potential relationship or friendship

You need confidence

Definitely, the best way to approach a girl! The first thing you need to do when approaching a girl is to be confident because women are attracted to confident men. If you appear nervous or unsure of yourself, it will be a turn off. 

Go with a smile

When you’re skeptical about ‘’How should I approach a girl?’’ just go with the flow. 

When you want to approach a girl, give a stronger first impression with a genuine smile. With your smile, you will appear more approachable, making it easier for the girl to respond. That’s how you should approach a girl!

Make an introduction of yourself 

One of the best ways to approach a girl is to introduce yourself. Walk up to her, establish eye contact, and then go ahead to tell her your name and keep it simple. When you approach girls, it is good to tell them about yourself to get them interested in the conversation.

Show her you’re interested in her 

If you show a sincere interest in what she has to say, she will be more likely to want to continue the conversation. Asking her about her likes and interests can help build rapport and keep the conversation flowing. 

Make her laugh

When approaching a girl, show her you are humorous as a great way to break the ice and make her feel comfortable around you. If you can make her laugh, she will be more likely to want to talk to you.

Pay attention to her Body language

When you approach a girl, it’s important you pay close attention to her body language. If she appears not to be interested in the conversation, don’t force it but, if she appears open and friendly, it’s a good sign that she is receptive to talking.

Listen empathetically

When it comes to approaching a girl, listening and responding accordingly shows you are paying attention. This will help build rapport and show her that you are genuinely interested in getting to know her.

Compliment her

Everyone likes to receive compliments, and girls are no exception. When you approach a girl, take a moment to compliment her smile or her outfit. This will help to make her feel good and show her that you are paying attention.

Be yourself

A truthful and genuine man that speaks from the heart automatically becomes more appealing and desirable to a girl. It’s important to be yourself when approaching a girl. 

Be respectful

Finally, it’s important to be respectful when approaching a girl. Treat her with kindness and respect, and avoid making any inappropriate comments or gestures.

HOW TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN TRUE LOVE AND FAKE LOVE

 How to differentiate between true love and fake love 

FAKE LOVE/LUST

1.. The feeling arises from hormones

2.. Only felt as a gentile sensation

3.. Is primal instinct

4.. Only sexual desire and physical attraction

5.. Focuses only on a persons looks and body

6.. You want sex and not conversation

7.. You don't discuss feelings, just fantasy

8.. You say what they want to hear

9.. Silence is uncomfortable

TRUE LOVE

1.. Physical, emotional, spiritual and intellectual attraction

2.. The feeling arises from the heart and soul

3.. Is felt as a deep feeling of peace

4.. Is universal consciousness

5.. Focuses beyond the physical body and looks

6.. You explore deeply into one another

7.. You discuss and express feelings openly

8.. You listen to them intently

9.. Silence is understood

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WHY WOMEN MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES AND DANCING ON THE SAME MUSIC

 Did I marry you?

Did I pay your bride price?

Are you my wife?

But you promised to marry me if I got pregnant?

And so?

Did we sign any agreement to that effect?

What are you even saying?

We have six children together.

I've given birth to six children for you and you are saying you didn't pay my bride price and I'm not your wife?

Are you my wife?

Have I met your family to ask for your hand in marriage?

Look, I don't want to waste your time.

You are not my wife. 

I'm getting married to another woman in a few weeks.

We may have children together but we are not married. 

You need to leave so I can welcome my wife.

Leave where?

Where do you want me to go?

I don't know where to go.

You've been my life for 14 years, how can I start over?

I don't know,  I just know I don't want you anymore. 

How about the children?

I don't want them too.

I want to start over. 

You want to start over? How about me?

Do I get to start over too?

That's not my business.

So how do I take care of six children alone?

I don't know, you can figure it out.

This is not fiction.  This is happening this week.

As a woman, you'll always be blamed when a relationship goes bad because most of the decisions rest on your shoulders. 

The decision to get pregnant before marriage rests on you.

The decision to have another child after having the first one and no marriage occurred rests on you.

The decision to continue to remain in a relationship heading nowhere lies with you.

I don't understand why people would be in a relationship for 10 years then get engaged and also take another 5 years and still not get married. 

What is the point of getting engaged if you are not going to get married soon?

You would have just continued with the relationship without getting engaged.

If you make one mistake,  don't make another.

If someone asks you to get pregnant first and they'll marry you. 

You got pregnant and the music has changed. 

Why continue to make the same mistakes, dancing to the same music?

Why continue to have more children?

Isn't it easier to get married with one child than 6?

Remaining in a relationship and keep giving birth hoping to get married is a grave mistake. 

Many people don't value anything they get for free.

How can you pay for a cow you are milking for free?

There are relationships you shouldn't be in.

Later you start crying more than the bereaved.

You decide what you want to accept. 

You decide how people treat you. 

The choice is your

WAIT FOR SOMEONE WHO WILL CHOOSE YOU OVER, OVER AND OVER AGAIN

 Wait for someone who will choose you over and over and over again. Love is a choice you make every single day. You deserve to find the kind of person who shows up for what you share, someone who believes in it. 

Wait for someone who’s not perfect, but rather, real. Perfect is an illusion. Real is where you find something rare and special. Wait for someone who reminds you that love was always meant to be soft.

Wait for someone who is kind....someone who is respectful, not only in the beginning stages of the relationship when things are bright and beautiful, but also when things get hard.   

Wait for someone who respects your boundaries and does not force you to do things that you’re not willing or ready to do. 

Wait for someone who is giving and does not keep count of the good things they do for you. 

Wait for someone who challenges you mentally. Someone who inspires you to be a better person. 

Wait for someone who takes their time to learn and understand you.

Wait for someone who is consistent with their efforts in showing you how much they care about you. 

Wait for someone who wants to be part of your world, and wants you to be part of theirs. 

Wait for someone who lets you know you’re on their mind, someone who checks in on you, someone who wants you to know that they care for you. 

Wait for someone who is willing to commit to you, someone who is willing to choose you. 

Wait for someone who makes love feel easy, calm. Like coming home. 

Wait for someone who is sincere. Someone who doesn’t confuse you because their actions match their words. 

Wait for someone who is honest. 

Wait for someone who does their absolute best to not hurt you, someone who strives to protect your heart.

May God bless you 🙏

WHEN A WOMAN RESPECTS HER MAN.

 WHEN A WOMAN RESPECTS HER MAN.

✓ She speaks to him with a caring tone

✓ She gives him peace

✓ She doesn't compare him with other men; she inspires him to be the best version of himself

✓ She doesn't shout or scold him as if he is incompetent

✓ She doesn't belittle him when he is down or going through loss

✓ She corrects him lovingly in private; away from the children (if they're married) and the public

✓ She doesn't announce to people the things she has done for him and how he would be nothing without her

✓ She brings to attention his few weaknesses without forgetting his many strengths

✓ She doesn't give him silent treatment to punish him

✓ She doesn't say hurtful things just because she is mad 

✓ She acknowledges his good traits in private and in public

✓ She doesn't do mean things to teach him a lesson

✓ She suggests instead of ordering

✓ She doesn't treat him well only when the Imam or pastor or in-laws are watching. Her treatment is consistent, not a show.

✓ She gives him room to lead and participate; involving him in coming up with decisions.

May God bless you 🙏

❤️

ONCE YOU FALL IN LOVE::::

 𝗢𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗶𝗻 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗮 𝘁𝗼𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗼𝗺 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗳𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗿𝗶𝗼𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗿𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗲𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺. 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝘀𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗲𝗺𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗮𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝘀𝗮𝗳𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗮𝗿𝗺𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝘁'𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗲. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺.  𝗢𝗻 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿, 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝗶𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀𝘁. 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱.  𝗢𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝘀. 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗜 𝗮𝗺 𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽𝘀. 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗺𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗻𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝘁'𝘀 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝘄𝗼 𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗱... 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗜𝘀 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 ❤️