Tuesday, 5 December 2023

HOW TO WIN AS A COUPLE

 HOW TO WIN AS A COUPLE


1. Cover each other's weaknesses


2. Celebrate each other's strengths


3. Have no topics that you cannot talk about. No judgment. Openness will open your mind to solutions


4. Consider each other's opinions and contribution


5. Be 100% in. Full commitment


6. Make incremental progress. Seek growth, not perfection


7. Develop a culture of reviewing your relationship; are we doing OK, and where can we improve?


8. Accept correction, be humble


9. Work on yourselves to be the best wife, the best husband


10. Have joint goals


11. Support each other in your individual goals


12. Keep each other as a priority even as you have friends


13. Thank God together. A thankful couple is a powerful couple


14. Don't compete with each other, accommodate each other 


15. Bring whatever lessons or opportunities you learn out there into your marriage. Learn together 


16. Be patient. Some wins take time


17. When you fall whether as a couple or as individuals, pick each other up


18. Protect what you have built together. It is very easy to lose it fast


19. Control your tempers. A lot of bad choices are made in moments of anger


20. Don't copy other couples. Create your testimonies.


DATE THIS GIRL

 Date this girl.


Date the girl you who makes you smile everytime she walks into the room. 


Date the girl who wants to slow dance with you in the kitchen to a song written by George Strait. 


Date the girl who motivates you to do better in all aspects of your life. 


Date the girl that would rather cuddle with you on the couch in her pajamas while binge watching her favorite show on Netflix, than go out and get drunk at a party. 


Date the girl who's excited to tell you about her day at work. 


Date the girl who's laugh stops and warms up your heart when you have a bad day. 


Date the girl who wants to lay a blanket on the ground and watch the stars with you on a cool summer night. 


Date the girl with an old soul ..... that has morals and qualities that are extremely hard to find in this generation. 


Date the girl who understands that children need to raised in a home where love is more important than money.


Date the girl who wants you text her as soon as you arrive to your destination so she's knows you made it there safely. 


And date the girl who prays every single night for you coming into her life so calmy and unexpectedly. 


Take my advice and date the girl who makes you feel so loved when you're in her presence, it feels like you're finally home.



'''ADVICE TO ALL MARRIED MEN AND ABOUT TO MARRIED'''

 " ADVICE TO ALL MARRIED MEN...✍✔

1. If you value your health and you want to live long and have a happy home, let your wife always win an argument. Trust me, it's the shortcut I know to peace of mind! Where there is no wood (fuel), the fire goes out!

2. Stop trying to figure out your wife or understand why she does what she does. It's a waste of precious time. Remember that you (Adam) were put to sleep while she (Eve) was being produced? How can you try to understand a piece of equipment that wasn't assembled in your presence?

3. Marriage is about ACCEPTANCE, not tolerance. Make your marriage relationship-driven, not performance-driven. She was NOT created in your image. Stop projecting YOU onto her. Show her the need for change through leadership, not coercion. 

4. While a man is rational, the woman is emotional. One (the man) processes via his head, and the other processes things through her heart (emotions). One thinks things through, the other feels her way through things. Facts drive you. Intuition drives her. What she can't FEEL, she doesn't SEE!

5. When sex becomes a weapon, a duty, or an entitlement, it loses its very essence, LOVE-MAKING. It simply becomes another chore like dishwashing which nobody looks forward to doing! Play with her. Flirt with her. Serenade her. Hug. Cuddle. Hold hands. Surprise her. Blow gently into her ears while she is cooking or while you are watching a movie together. Be spontaneous. Being a king-kong overlord in "ze oza room" and puffing and panting like a worn-out locomotive while she wonders what just happened can only lead to frustration. Remember, it is never about the size of the weapon but the fury of the attack! (Decode that!)




6. Go out often. Make regular, unscheduled date nights. Take a bath together. Make room for movie nights together either at home or at the cinema.

7. Remember that ONLY THE TWO OF YOU started the journey together and when the children have jumped the nest, only the two of you will remain. So, keep the bond ALL THE WAY and never drop the ball

8. Impregnate her with VISION. Allow her to dream too. Every woman loves a man working towards a future in which she can feature. Remember, a woman simply means "womb man". She always wants something to incubate and nourish. You give her a seed, and she incubates it and turns it into a baby for you

9. She is your wife, companion, and confidant, not a washing machine, cook, or slave. You can't wear her out with chores all day and expect to 'ride' a functional "bicycle" all night! Impossible! Partners help partners by giving a helping hand where needed, even without being told.

10. Love is not 50/50. It is 100%. God didn't say to love your wife when she is submissive. It simply says to love her as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her.

11. Be PRESENT. Don't be at home married to your computer, football game, or your phone for that matter. Listen when she wants to talk. Even when you don't know what to contribute to the discourse, you will soon discover that all she wanted was for you to listen. Your opinion may not even count!

12. If both of you are servants Almighty of God, you are SIBLINGS!!! You have the same Father and the same Father-in-law, GOD!!! Ever thought of that? Treat your wife with the dignity you would accord your blood sister. If you are fond of disgracing your wife in public and calling her all sorts of unprintable names, remember, it wasn't God who named EVE. He created a woman, and Adam gave her a name. Whatever you call your wife, that is what she will reflect on you. If you call your wife a Jezebel, we need to check if your middle name isn't Ahab! Call her your Queen and she will make you her crown! It takes one to find one!  When you see the glory of your Father in her, you will be a great Son-in-law too! A wife you don't honour cannot bring honour to you too.

MAY YOUR HOMES REFLECT THE MIND OF GOD! 

THE SECRET OF WOMEN THAT WANT TO SNATCH YOUR HUSBAND

 SEXUAL SECRETS OF WOMEN THAT WANT TO SNATCH YOUR HUSBAND WHICH YOUR RELIGIOUS LIFE HAS NOT ALLOWED YOU TO DO.

Lots of women are losing their husbands to strange women out there and most women are yet to know what these men see in these women that make them get glued to them even though they know that these women are more expensive and most are full of sexually transmitted diseases.


Hi wives, you need to know the sexual secrets of these faceless women, sorry they are better than you in the bed, you need to step up to match up with them and beat them in their dirty games. Take your time to read this and get your husband back, these are their secrets:

1) THEY UNDERSTAND THE SEXUAL WEAKNESS OF MEN: They understand that one of the weaknesses of most men is sex and they make good use of this. Wives are careless about this, instead of using sex to create intimacy with their husbands; they use it to create animosity, anger, and bitterness between them and their husbands.

WHAT TO DO: Use sex as a tool of love to create intimacy in your marriage, don’t use sex to destroy your marriage, use it to build it.

2) THEY KISS LIKE MAD: In a report, most married men reported that their wives hate kissing; they said it is difficult to get a decent kiss from their wives. Strange women are experts in this area they use kissing as a weapon.

WHAT TO DO: Don’t turn kissing into wrestling in your marriage, stop being local. Kiss your husband even when he is not expecting it.

3) THEY USE KILLER UNDERWEAR: A man said he hates to see his wife in panties because according to him, she always looks like a wrestler. Lots of wives are like this, they are fond of wearing pants whose colors are different from their bras, looking like a rainbow, dirty pants, outdated underwear, a bra that looks like tarpaulin, wearing boxers that are meant for men, wearing knickers and tying of wrapper to bed. Strange women are creative in this regard they are fond of using neat, sexy panties and bras. They always balance colors under there.

WHAT TO DO: Wives wake up, fashion starts from under, not from head gear or rope sieve bag, the real fashion is looking sexy when you undress before your husband.

4) THEY USE KILLER NIGHTIE: Strange women not only wear sexy underwear, but they also wear killer nighties. While wives dress to bed and look like a soldier in bed, strange women dress to capture the man even before getting to bed.

WHAT TO DO: When you are going out dress up, when you are going to bed dress down. Dress to capture the imagination of your husband, and get a very sexy, nasty nightie for your husband’s eyes only. Men are moved by what they see, let your husband see the angel in you.

5) THEY SEE SEX AS A SERIOUS BUSINESS: You see it as a chore, you see it as dirty, you even wish it is removed from marriage, it never crosses your mind. But these strange ladies, see sex as a serious business and do everything to keep their clients and customers. They use all marketing strategies, branding, product, packaging, marketing, and advertisement.

WHAT TO DO: Begin to see sex as a serious business, rebrand yourself, and repackage yourself because you are the real product.

6) THEY TREAT SEX AS FOOD OF MEN: Wives are fond of saying “Is it food?” What a foolish statement! It’s not food, it’s more than what the Bible says it is water (Proverbs 5:15-19). Strange women are aware of the fact that men see sex as food and they serve it hot and better

WHAT TO DO: Get into the fray, and treat it as the food of your husband. Serve it better than before, and never say, “Is it food?” again in your life, it is more than that

7) SEX IS IN THEIR MIND: Babies, house cleaning, cooking, and washing are in the minds of wives; sex is never in their minds, they never think of it, but women put it in their minds and their body is ready no wonder they hardly look tired for it.

WHAT TO DO: At least two or three times a week, put sex in your to-do list, put it in your mind, and see how your marriage turns out to be

😎 THEY PLAN FOR SEX: Strange women plan for sex the way you plan for your cooking; they look forward to it and carry their catch along in their plans.

WHAT TO DO: Plan for sex in your marriage; don’t make it your husband’s affairs to plan for sex in your marriage. Let it be part of your schedule.

9) THEY SET TABLE FOR SEX: Strange women do set table for great sex, soft music, blue light, candlelight, perfumed bed, velvet bed sheet, sexy outlook, and slippery fingers. Do you still wonder why men are running to them?

WHAT TO DO: Begin to set a table for sex in your marriage, be creative, and surprise your husband with a sexy outlook when he arrives from work. Children are already in bed, you look “Smatching”, the whole house looks romantic, soft music, dinner with candlelight, Hug by the door and kiss on the lips. Who says your husband will not rush home tomorrow?

10) THEY ARE VERY ROMANTIC: Romance is a strange thing to some women, the away women don’t joke about it, they are experts in this. Whole lots of wives are romantically bankrupt but strange women are professional in it. Men love romantic women and strange women know this.

WHAT TO DO: become romantic, marriage is a love affair, don’t allow motherhood and wifehood to destroy your girlish instinct. Be romantic.

11) THEY FLIRT WITH THEIR MEN: Strange women are not only romantic, they are flirty. they give “come and do” eye contact, if you sit with them at a table they make sure their legs touch yours, and they put hands on men’s shoulders and touch men’s Legs as they discuss. They greet men with a good smile, they laugh excessively at men’s dry jokes. All these signals immoral men understand perfectly and they quickly go for them.

WORK TO DO: Get flirty with your husband, hold his hands in public, place your head on him when on a bus, touch his legs as you talk, sit close to him and sure to make your body touch his own, hold him longer when hugging, he is your husband girl, get flirty with him.

If anybody snatched your husband after you might have read this, then it’s your fault.

From today start improving your sex life don't come here to complain unless you have done this and it didn't work out. To all my haters because of sex issues, kindly go to Court tomorrow, you will see the number of people getting divorced because of sex



Monday, 4 December 2023

WHEN A PERSON TRULY LOVES YOU

1) They Ask You How Your Day Was, And Are Truly Interested In The Answer

2) They Are Hurt When You Are Hurt. They Hate To See You Suffering & Unhappy.

3) They Care About Your Happiness & Wellbeing, And Consider Your Feelings When Making Deviations.

4) They Listen To What’s  Bothering You, And Try To Be Supportive  & Helpful.

5) They Would Never Risk Losing You, By Being Unfaithful Or Disloyal.

6) They Would Compromise & Negotiate Situations, And Make Sure Your Feelings Are Considered ,When Making Decisions .

7) They Tell You They Love You, And They Show You In All The Ways They Treat You.

Sunday, 3 December 2023

SUBMISSIVENESS IS NOT STUPIDITY




Ladies don’t know there is power in being submissive. 

Some feel it is stupidity to respect a man. 


To be there for him and be part in his life both in good times and bad times.

Circumstances shouldn’t determine whether you submit to a man or not.

Per adventure he loses his job,that shouldn’t make you disrespect him. 


Remember, that is just a passing phase,he will bounce back again and you might regret being disrespectful and rude when he had nothing.

A man’s greatest want is respect,many mistake it for sex. In as much as they want that,men love to be respected whether or not they have money. You should never disrespect them.

If you are submissive you can manipulate any man to do whatever you want... ya you heard that right. 


When your HUSBAND comes back from work, πŸ‘·πŸΎ‍♂️you greet him. Give him a warm hug πŸ€— 

Ask about his day ❓

He takes his bathπŸ§–‍♂️

You serve him his food πŸ₯˜ 

You stay with him till he finishes eating

Yes you have a hair to buy or a clothe you have to buyπŸ‘ˆ

After when he has settled down...

You sit on his lap, touch him in some certain places...πŸ˜‰

And then release the bomb πŸ’£ 

“Honey I need to get a new hair”

Or “my king do you know my friend’s wedding is next Saturday?

He will say really?

You will then use a baby voice and say

“I need to get a fine dress for the wedding”

“You know you are a king,your wife can’t be dressed less than royalty”

Just try and see whether he will not do it or not!

Submissiveness is more powerful than love

WHAT IS A RELATIONSHIP?




Many people do not know the meaning of relationship or read different meanings to that word.

A RELATIONSHIP is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a beautiful girlfriend.

It’s not about looking for a perfect person because there isn’t any perfect person on earth.

It’s not about looking for a fair complexion or a rich person.

Having a lot of money doesn’t mean that one has too much pure love.

MONEY πŸ’° CAN’T BUY LOVE. 😍

A relationship is about finding someone who respects you.

Who cares about you in anyway he/she can afford.

Who understands you.

Who is proud of having you.

Who appreciates you the way you are .

Who loves you the way you are.

Who is faithful to you.

Who knows how to comfort you.

Who is supportive to you or in everything you are trying to do.

Who knows how to encourage

you to be your best.

Who would accept the worst of you.

Forgive you

And who will go through everything without giving up on u.

Such people are very rare to find these days.

It takes God himself to bring you such person just like He did for Adam.

But your relationship with God will be a major determinant in finding such person.

If you have got such person already just keep that person.

Handle him or her with care.

Be honest & contented with that person and don't do anything to hurt or let down that special person.

Remember, Relationship is a full time commitment/sacrifice and you must be willing to pay.

Thanks for reading 😊♥️❤️

hhff

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