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MEN STOP DATING A LIABILITY!

1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to visit someone that she claims she loves. (liability) 

2.  A lady who can't get you birthday or valentine gift but expect you to bring down the world for her during hers.(liability) 

3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5 minutes.

Always flashing, complaining and requesting for data and airtime...(liability) 

4. I wonder how some Men cope with ladies that think relationship is an occupation where she's supposed to be paid and taken care of??

(S*x is not a benefit to only men.). She might not even allow you have the s*x, yet you keep spending on her like government. (liability) 

5. Stop dating a liability no matter how beautiful she is. Beauty is a bonus, focus on her content!

Date a lady who can add something meaningful to your life.

Things like: financial intelligence, emotional intelligence, spiritual intelligence.

6. Date someone who's capable of managing multiplying whatever she has and the ones you give to her, your soul will be at peace!

Not someone that will always be at the receiving end.

7. We're not saying she must be rich.

But let her have something doing no matter how little it is, because no matter how much money you make, she must be able to assist you during the rainy days...

Some of you boys just see nyash and be willing to sell everything you have just to make it work,  you might give her 100K today she'll say "thanks" but when you call her tomorrow and tell her to visit you she will say "send transport money" (liability) 

Two good heads are better than one👌👌

---Mr wise .

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WHAT A HUSBAND TOLD HIS WIFE THE NIGHT OF THEIR WEDDING

My wife, everyone has gone home. The music is quiet, the celebration is over. Our wedding was beautiful but it is now in the past. We have finished the wedding/marriage, it is now time to build our marriage. All that is left now is the two of us… What we will become tomorrow, starts from tonight. Our life is no longer the same.

There was a day you put on one red dress… You looked so beautiful in it. That Day I wanted to just touch you! We were in the Cinema and I was so tempted. I wanted to just take you inside the toilet and kiss you but I couldn’t. Guess what? Now I have you forever, I can do that everyday.

Before I take off your cloth and make love to you… let me tell you few things.

I have nothing to hide from you from this day. My phone, you can use it like your own. You can access my facebook, my twitter and my Instagram

From today, I have become a child. For the past five years of my life, I have been a man. I wake myself up in the morning, sometimes I go to bed hungry, I do things the way I want to. I come home whenever I want to but all that ends today. From today you become my mother, who will scold me when I come home late, a mother who will wake me up at six to go work, a mother who will ensure I don’t sleep hungry. I am glad I have a mother in you.

I hope you will be a good mother? Don’t be too harsh and I promise I won’t be too stubborn. Sometimes I will give you headache but I promise, I will also be the cure of every headache.

When my parents died, I looked after my brothers and sisters. I was like a father to them. So i will not have problem being a father to you. 

Hope all men wil be as nice as this. Let treat women like egg. Women are precious, they value a lot 🤔🙉🙌🏿🙏✍🏾👀

 #I LOVED YOU 🥰

9 DIFFERENT TYPES OF SEX IN MARRIAGE!!

1. RECONCILIATION SEX:- Sex is a most potent weapon for diluting and difusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don't use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximising it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict.

2. HEALING SEX:- There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex.  Healing sex is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don't rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull's eye. Please Husbands, don't throw your weight on her if it's for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%.

3. PUNISHMENT SEX:- When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say "Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of sex", or "since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again". That is as senseless as saying "since my child failed a Test, I punished him by withdrew him from school". It's foolishness. The wise thing to do is to give your spouse more sex as punishment rather than depriving him or her. When your husband or wife misbehaves, correct them using sex. That is the best punishment. Not slapping or fighting or public disgrace. Punishment sex is very hot. 😷

4. MEMORABLE SEX:- This is a very special kind of sex that you organise and plan for. Every couple must be doing this once in a while. Honeymoons should be organised at least once is a quarter  (once in 3 months). If you have means, do it once a month. You book a hotel for say 3-7 days and retreat to help build your marriage. A kind of Intimacy Retreat. You mustn't go to hotel if you can't afford it. Just send the kids somewhere and make it memorable. Light Candles around and on the blue or green bulb. Use good perfume and the Angels will bear you witness.

5. QUICK SURPRISED SEX:- This is a sex that married couples should do often to build their love life.  One "Quickie" is stronger than 100 Love Charms from India or oshogbo. A Quickie is that very fast sex that a couple does in ODD places or in ODD position. Usually one spouse surprises the other with it. You don't take formal permission quickies. You just start it just like that. MARRIAGES WITHOUT QUICKIES HAVE QUICK PROBLEMS AND BREAK QUICK. Spouses who don't believe in surprise sex are analogue and expired. Quickies can be done in the car. Drive her to a corner and pretend as if the car didn't start. It can take place on kitchen sink or  at the balcony or inside swimming pool or in garden. 

6. EXERCISE SEX:- This type should happen frequently especially in the mornings. God did it that the male organ wakes up in the morning erect to greet it's Owner - the Wife. So as much as humanly possible, let every wife answer the morning  greeting. God's mercies are New Every Morning. Great is His Faithfulness. Mercy and Faithfulness are co-joined twins.

7. ENCOURAGEMENT SEX:- You use this type of Sex to encourage your Spouse to do something or Not to do something.  There are times he wants to do something that you think is not the best of decision, just come in the most seductive way and delay him. When he is exhausted after you have drilled him, speak softly and he will say "I didn't know that was what you were saying before, now I understand you". 

8. REWARD SEX:- This is the type that you reward your spouse for achieving something unique or for exceeding expectations. Reward Sex is not just one round but extended over a period of time. Reward Sex is an open check to do whatever he or she loves. It's extra ordinary.

9. PROCREATION SEX:- This is sex you do purely for pregnancy. When you need child, the best style is the one that gives the husband maximum penetration. Support your wife with pillow is you aren't a longman. But you must make sure it is as wet as wetness can be. Sperm needs wetness to swim inside the womb. When he releases he must remain inside there for a few minutes. Don't pull fast.

I BELIEVE YOU ARE BLESSED WITH THE MESSAGE?

DO NOT DATE SOMEONE WHO IS ASHAMED OF:

 DO NOT DATE SOMEONE WHO IS ASHAMED OF:

✔️The Job you do..

So you are a teacher, and he introduces you to his friends as a Nurse, my sister dump him oh..

It will end in tears if you don't.

She's ashamed of the fact that you are a janitor, dry cleaner, or you are a Uber driver and makes sure she's not seen at your work place or with you publicly by her friends. End such a Relationship . 

 

✔️ The Background you come from.

So she's coming to visit you, and she's looking at your parents and your family house with disgust and she's avoiding hugging your aged mother.

She loves your money and current status but doesn't love where you came from.

This type of woman will cut you off from your family after marriage by hook and by crook. 

She is embarrassed to be seen you around the area you live in, and so any time you want to see her , it has to be in an eatery. End it in this 2024.

✔️Your Physical Looks.

Don't date anybody who doesn't find you physically attractive and keeps on putting you down privately and publicly because of that. 

One of the ways you know somebody who doesn't love you but has come to date you because of your job, money, fame, out of convenience, or someone who is just confused about what they want in life is the fact that they openly and secretly condemn your looks.

You are too fat, was he blind before he asked you out?

You are too short, what does he now want you to do? To commit suicide?

You are too slim, of all the fat girls out there, why did he come to you? 

Your breasts are too small, didn't he see a Mercy Johnson out there to date?

Don't allow anybody give you high blood pressure just because they are dating you.

Don't allow anybody nag you into ulcer and depression because of physical looks..

True Love accepts You.

True Love celebrates You.

True Love doesn't cherry pick some aspects of your life that it's comfortable with and then want you to hide other aspects and pretend it's fine with you when it's not ..

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You too, if you won't be proud of someone's family/background, job, and looks, don't date them.

Don't give what you won't take.

10 WAYS TO AVOID HEART BREAK IN RELATIONSHIP

 10 Ways To Avoid Heart-Break In Relationships

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1. Not all relationships must lead to marriage. Some relationships are for a reason, others are for a season, only few are for a life time. If it doesn’t work out, don’t kill yourself because it was for something. Discover the purpose and move on.

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2. Don’t give a man or a woman the totality of your heart before giving the totality of your heart to God. Love that person but put God first.

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3. Don’t get carried away with beauty or money, if that person’s inner person cannot keep you, his money or her beauty cannot either.

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4. Love is never enough, understanding, compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally important.

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5. When the negative signs are more than the positive signs. It is better to withdraw your heart before it gets ‘broken’.

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6. Extreme jealousy is the quickest way to break that relationship.

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7. Don’t demand trust; earn it, build it or show it.

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8. Never you compare him or her to someone else.

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9. Your relationship should not only be marriage driven but care, love and concern driven.

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10. Don’t marry him or him or her because you saw him or her in Asalat or church. Many are in Asalatu or

church but not in touch with God. It is not WHERE you meet, but WHO you meet that counts.

DON'T TELL ANYONE

 

In A Relationship, Whether Married or still in Courtship, there are things you should not tell another person. You never know who will be the Judas over your relationship. There are high secrets you have to keep only to yourself.

1. Don't tell anybody how weak your partner is. Someone may use it against you/them.

2. Don't tell people how much you quarrel with your partner, make them see it as perfect from the outside while you settle issues from the inside.

3. Don't tell even a best friend how much you get as pocket allowance from your husband, if they ask tell them that he's giving more than you expected.

4. Men don't tell your friends how good your wife is in bed, that's a secret between you and your wife.

5. Don't ever tell your mother the way he or she is acting in the marriage, you won't like the outcome if she's a jealous mother-in-law.

6. Ladies, a friend may be eyeing your hubby and that's why you shouldn't tell them what moves him most.

7. Even if your pastor is not worthy to know how many times you quarrel with your husband, most of them will use it as a sermon. Just talk to God alone.

8. Don't tell the children that their father/mother is a bad person. It can make them hate them.

9. Don't tell anybody about your partner's past mistakes, it is too risky for your marriage.

10. Don't tell anyone to try seducing your partner to prove their loyalty. They may end up winning their love. Prevention is better than cure....

THE DANGER OF FORCING LOVE⚠️

 

It is dangerous to force yourself on someone or marry someone who does not love you. When there is no love in marriage, the wedding ring becomes a little handcuff and your marriage becomes a prison yard instead of a paradise on earth.

A man who does not love a woman during courtship will find it difficult to cherish her after getting married. There are people who will never love you no matter how much you show love to them. That's the reality of life. Love is a choice. Don't force yourself on anyone.

Don't keep fighting to be with someone who isn’t fighting to be with you, you can’t keep holding onto someone who is not holding onto you, you can’t keep planning your future with someone who doesn’t plan theirs with you, you can’t keep running back to someone who is running away from you, you can’t keep loving and caring about someone who shows that they no longer love you, and you can’t keep taking someone as a priority yet they are taking you as their option.

Trust me, it’s a waste of time and energy. No matter how hard and hurting it is, you have to let go and open up a new chapter for your life. Because There are thousand of people who are praying and wishing to spend the rest of their lives with you!

Why kill yourself over someone who thinks he/she is doing you a big favor by being in a relationship with you.

You deserve to be happy, loved and cared for not to be sad all the time, to have sleepless nights, to cry and plead for someone’s love. Think about it.

You have to be in a relationship in which you are loved, celebrated, honored and not tolerated. But until you let go of the wrong person from your life, you can't see the right person for your life. 

Sometimes We may love the wrong person, cry for the wrong reasons. But one thing is for sure, mistakes help us to find the right person. Know your place in people's life and act accordingly. It's not pride, it is self respect.

BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP TAKES YEARS BUT DESTRUCTION TAKES JUST SECONDS

1. Any fool can destroy a relationship. Destruction comes very easy. Try dropping an egg and see how easily it breaks. That is how fragile relationships are.

2. Anything good worth having will demand time and effort. If it comes too easy, it may just leave the same way.

3. For a relationship to be successful, you must be willing to make it work.

4. Forget the fantasies you watch on television, things don’t work themselves out unless you do. There’s no ‘living happily ever after’ unless you make it happen.

5. Love is a great feeling. However keeping a relationship successful demands more than your feelings. It takes work.

6. Your emotions can easily lead you astray if you don’t know what you really want. In a moment of monumental stupidity, you can allow your emotions to destroy what took you years to build. Don’t allow it.

7. Every relationship is tested. When you pass that test, you will enjoy your journey.

8. It takes wisdom to build a relationship. If you don’t have the necessary wisdom to make it work, search for it.

9. Before you explode in anger, consider the fact that you are about to throw your whole future away in a few minutes. You don’t have to say every stupid thing that pops into your head. Learn to be patient. Learn to be forgiving.

10. Pride goes before a fall. Learn to be humble and forgive. You are not perfect yourself. Help and support your partner to be the best they can be.

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Let's share to educate others 🙏

Class dismissed ✍️🍸

WHAT KEEPS A MAN

 WHAT KEEPS A MAN 

Here's the truth, ladies.

Being pretty doesn't keep a man. Being honest doesn't keep a man. Being loyal doesn't keep a man. Treating a man good doesn't keep a man. Being there for a man doesn't keep a man. Caring about a man doesn't keep a man. Making an effort doesn't keep a man. Paying attention to a man doesn't keep a man. Spending time with a man doesn't keep a man. You could have the best intentions, you could have the most sincere feelings, and you could be a good woman and you still wouldn't be able to keep a man because the only way to keep a man is if that man wants to be kept by you. 

You can't force a man to be with you. You can't beg a man to stay with you.

You can't love a man into loving you. With a man, you could tell he wants to be kept when the relationship gets hard and he does everything to fight for you because a man only fights for a girl he wants to belong to so if he isn't fighting for you when things get hard, then that means he doesn't want to be kept by you anymore. 

The moral of this? Don't hold on to a man who doesn't want to be kept by you. No, you're not giving up on him. It's him who gave up on you, and it's you who shouldn't waste any more of your time than you already have. Know when it's time to let go, know when it's time to walk away, and know when it's time for him to be unkept. A word to the wise.....

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SEARCH FOR A GOOD HEART NOT A BEAUTIFUL FACE AND DEEP POCKET

 

Relationshipis one thing that can mess up your lifebe careful. Pray  & be sensible😎 when falling in love💯💯. Love can turn a bright future into a miserable life🚯. It's painful to know that the person you love😍 is actually in love😍 with someone else

It's even more painful to fall in love😍😍 with a person who has another thing in mind😈. Every relationship is a game of risk😯. No one can say which is really going to work🙄. Some relationship mistakes😥can cause a life time regret.

Search for a good heart💙💜 and not a beautiful face. Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful💯. Age and pressure is never a reason to date or marry👫👫. If you are single💇 sometimes means God is putting you on reserve for the person you deserve....

Don't allow the rate of marriages this days make you feel left out😪.. Not all marriages are normal.

 

..some are suicide mission while some marriages are motivated by Sexual urge and money greed. No love in it. Be careful who you date..the heart of a man is only known by his GOD

Forget face, shape, fame, qualification or money. All this things become Irrelevant in just 5years into the marriage.❌😥.

And never you date someone you know deep down you cannot Marry.

May we not choose wrongly in Jesus name

BEST SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES

1. Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxer. Sleep naked for best results.

2. Brush your teeth to encourage kissing.

3. Don't carry work to bed.

4. Minimize the use of phones or laptops. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacred.

5. Move the baby to a separate room (if your finances allow you to and you have a home of more than one bedroom) when the baby is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom that is an exclusive island for two.

6. Gentleman have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it's her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, stroke him with your gentle touch, your fingers speaking love

7. Make a habit of praising each other's body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters.

8. Pray together before you sleep, and when you wake up.

9. Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don't sleep with a grudge or anger.

10. Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory.

11. Have pillow talks, open your heart and lips and talk intimate stuff. Say how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken?

12. Cuddle up when you feel sleep is fast approaching, drown into sleep as your bodies intertwine.

13. Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation.

14. Incase one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)

15. Cover your partner incase you wake up in the middle of the night and find your partner outside the duvet/ blanket.

16. Kiss your partner when you come back from peeing in the middle of the night

17. Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes up

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HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF IN 2024

 HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF IN 2024

1...Stop looking for who is not looking for you.📌📌

2... Stop begging.💁💁

3...Stop saying more than necessary.✍️🤙✍️

4...When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.💪

5...Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.🤔🤔

6...Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.

7...Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.✨💃

8... Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

9...Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.😘🙄

10... Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.✍️💃

11... Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals

12...Respect your time.🏎️

13... Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.🚶🚶

14... Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.🥂🍾🍱🌮🍔

15... Be scarce sometimes.🌙🌙

16...Be a giver more than a receiver.

17...Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.

18...Treat people exactly the way you want to be treated.🌻💐

19... Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.

20...Be good at what you do.🧑‍🤝‍🧑

STAY BLESSED🙏❤️

WHAT TO DO AND NOT TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE IS PREGNANT

 WHAT TO DO AND NOT TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE IS PREGNANT 

1. DON'T TALK AS IF THE CHILD IS UNWANTED

Don't make your wife and the child feel abandoned, even if the pregnancy was not planned

2. DO PRAY FOR YOUR CHILD

Don't wait for the child to be born to start praying for the child. Pray for the child even when in the womb

3. DON'T CHEAT

When your wife is carrying your child, don't dishonour her by entertaining another woman/women

4. DO LEARN MORE ABOUT PARENTING

There is a lot of material about parenting, get knowledgeable. Even if it is not your first child, you can always improve on the kind of father you are

5. DON'T STRESS YOUR WIFE

Stressing her will be stressing your baby. Remember she is the home for the unborn. Stress can make the child develop complications or even worse, lead to a miscarriage or still birth

6. DO SERVE AND HELP AROUND

At this point, she is doing a lot, she might get tired easily especially as the pregnancy grows. Attend to her, massage her, shop for her. Take care of her and the unborn

7. DON'T JUDGE HER

If she develops mood swings, weird cravings or some mannerisms that are peculiar. If she struggles to sleep at night or becomes moody; understand her. It could be the hormones or the pressure

8. DO TALK ABOUT HER AND THE CHILD/CHILDREN

Keep checking up on her. Is she OK? Does she have any fears? Is she having any discharge? Is her blood pressure OK? How is the unborn? What are her thoughts about motherhood?

9. DON'T DEMAND SEX

If you have a wife who craves for sex during pregnancy, that is good, enjoy. But if she finds sex uncomfortable or less desirable or is not in the mood; don't force. She might be in the mood tomorrow, look for ways to pleasure each other such as with hands

10. DO MAKE HER FEEL BEAUTIFUL AND ATTRACTIVE

A woman loses her body shape as she expands, some develop pimples and stretchmarks and this can make a woman feel less attractive and self-conscious. Some wonder if they will ever get their body back. Boost up her self esteem.

THE TYPES OF WIVES:

 THE TYPES OF WIVES:

1.THE GOSSIPING ONE

What you love talking about are stories of others, often negative stories. Your husband looks at you and wonders, is there not something better to talk about?

2. THE PASSIVE IN BED ONE

You lay in bed, lifeless, wanting your husband to do all the work to seduce you. You make no moves on him and he is starting to feel drained because it is not two way.

3. THE COMPLAINING ONE

You rarely see anything good. You are quick to point to your husband his faults. Every day is a new reason to complain. Your husband feels discouraged and slowly he no longer is enjoying your company.

4. THE LOW SELF-ESTEEM ONE

You look down on yourself. You dress down, carrying yourself as a victim to feel sorry for. Your husband tells you that you are beautiful but you don’t believe him. Your lack of self worth is making you less attractive.

5. THE INDEPENDENT ONE

You are so used to making your own money, calling the shots and doing life alone that your husband no longer feels needed in your life. He wants to love you but you push him away.

6. THE LAZY ONE

You want to be done for everything. You have no dreams to pursue or plans in life. You just sit around waiting for your husband to attend to you. He no longer sees you as a life partner but as a dependent who just keeps taking, adding no value.

7. THE OVERLY RELIGIOUS ONE

You are superstitious and rigid. According to you, everything pleasurable is from the devil. You have an unhealthy view of God that is making enjoying marriage with you impossible.

8. THE HOT TEMPERED ONE

You snap so easily. You shout at your husband and children and use your voice harshly. You are not peaceful. Little conversations with you turn into arguments. It is difficult to settle disputes with you. Your husband loves you but talks less with you weighing what to tell you.

9. THE FLIRTATIOUS ONE

You are married but flirt with multiple men at the workplace, in the neighbourhood, on social media, over the phone.

TYPES OF HUSBANDS:

 TYPES OF HUSBANDS:

1: BACHELOR HUSBAND

Does things on his own without consulting wife. Hangs out a lot with friends more than wife. Not serious about marriage life.

2: ACIDIC HUSBAND.

Is always boiling like acid and always angry violent, moody, dominating and very dangerous.

3: SLAVE HUSBAND

Wants to be treated like a King but treats his Wife like a Slave. Likes wife to perform old tradition respect and hates being called by their first name.

4: GENERAL HUSBAND

Husband for every woman. loves and cares for girlfriends more than his wife. Likes giving money to girlfriends and has more female friends.

5: DRY HUSBAND

Very moody and stingy, doesn't consider wife's interest, doesn't make the relationship enjoyable. Has no sense of humour.

6: PANADOL HUSBAND

Uses wife as a problem solver, only loves wife when in need of something from her. He's clever and knows his wife's weaknesses and capitalizes on that to get relief from his wife.

7: PARASITE HUSBAND.

Lazy and only loves wife for the sake of money. Uses wife's money on girlfriends. No initiative and does not help wife with house responsibilities.

8: BABY HUSBAND

Irresponsible and childish and can't make decisions on his own without asking his mother or relatives; subjects his wife to relatives' dictates thereby running to them when things go wrong.

9: VISITING HUSBAND

Not always at home, comes as a visitor. Provia des family with all material things but has no time for them.

10: CARING HUSBAND

Caring and loving; he provides material and emotional needs and makes time for family. He guides home spiritually. Very responsible and treats wife as partner and helper.

ADVICE TO FAITHFUL BRIDE TO BE.

Make sure you study your guy very well and know the group he belongs to before saying I do so that you will not regret it later. 

Thanks, lovely friend

SHE TRULY LOVES YOU LIKE NO OTHER, IF YOU CAN SEE ALL THESE

 She Truly Loves You Like no Other if You Can See All These 20 Things in her.

To know who truly love you can be a very difficult task, simply because love is not a visible thing that we can all see with out naked eye. Love is what we can only feel inside us, and if we don't pay good attention to all these things, we may not be able to know love, no matter how we try. I love you is not always known by who can say it better, you need to know that genuine things are meant to be known through our actions.

Here are the ways to know when a woman truly love or cares about you:

1. She always have a eye contact with you:  

She always looks at you seductively, mostly when you are both discussing. Anytime you are together she always focus on, paying full attention to whatever you are saying while looking you in the eye.

You need to notice how her eyes light up when she sees you, even when you're busy with other things. Eye contact is a powerful indicator of interest and attraction.

2. She always encourages you:

 If she consistently supports and motivates you to do better, even in activities she may not be interested in, it shows that she cares about your happiness and success.

3. She's always curious to know and be a part of what you are going through:

When someone loves you deeply, they become genuinely worried about your well-being. If she's always there to help and comfort you during challenging times, consider it a sign of her affection.

4. She enjoys being in your company:

If she prefers spending quality time alone with you instead of group outings, it signifies that she sees you as more than just a friend.

5. She can be jealous:

 Jealousy can be an indication of love. If she shows signs of possessiveness when you interact with others, it means she wants you all to herself.

6. She smiles more whenever you are around:

A genuine smile reflects happiness and positivity. If she lights up every time she sees you, it's a positive sign of her fondness for you.

7. She respects you:

 When she values your thoughts, pays attention to what you say, and treats you with respect, it shows that she holds you in high regard.

8. She dress good:

 If she puts effort into looking her best when she knows she'll be seeing you, it's a clear sign that she wants to impress and attract you.

9. She always finds reasons to talk to you:

If she initiates conversations, sends random texts, or shares interesting articles just to engage with you, it means she enjoys your company and wants to know more about you.

10. She expresses her kind gesture to you:

When someone loves you deeply, they'll go the extra mile to make you feel special. If she showers you with affection, endearing terms, or thoughtful gestures, it's a clear sign of her admiration.

11. She wants to be your best friend not anyone else:

 If she considers you her go-to person, shares her daily experiences with you, and expects the same in return, it indicates that she sees a deep connection with you.

12. She cares for your family and much as she cares for you:

 Showing genuine interest in your background, family, and past demonstrates her commitment and willingness to accept you as you are.

13. She doesn't want you to change at all:

 Acceptance is a vital aspect of love. If she embraces all your positive and negative traits without trying to change you, it's a sign that she loves you wholeheartedly.

14. She want you know her friends and family:

When someone is important to us, we naturally share our feelings with our closest friends. If she discusses you with her best friend, it means you hold a significant place in her life.

15. She can cooks for you or want you eat together: 

 She want join her whenever she is eating and also wish to join you when you are eating too. She preparing your favorite dishes and putting effort into making you happy through food is a heartfelt way of expressing love and care.

16. She always make you have deep conversations with her:

 If she engages in meaningful discussions, supports you during difficult times, and genuinely tries to understand you, it shows that she envisions a future with you.

17. She always expresses gratitude:

When she frequently expresses her appreciation for your presence and support, it indicates that she values you deeply and sees you as a potential partner.

18. She always try to explain, herself:

She can do anything to express herself to you just because she doesn't want you misquote or misunderstood her. She use to make sure you understand her always so that you won't doubt her being real with you.

19: she stays submissive:

She cooperate with you and she is very submissive, whenever you want to make her understand or do something she always have listening ears to everything you are saying.

20. She takes to correction:

She didn't make you feel like she knows more better than you. Whenever it's necessary for her to apologize for her some of her errors she does, and whenever you correct her, she yield to it once she knows that what you are correcting her for is truly wrong.

To know if anyone loves you is not wait you can know in a day, you need to keep on studying the person till you are so sure that you are loved.

DON'T LOOSE YOURSELF TO ANYONE ALL IN THE NAME OF LOVE

DON'T LOOSE YOURSELF TO ANYONE ALL IN THE NAME OF LOVE

Because you didn't want to lose him, you lost yourself in the process.

 You became a girl who kept being mistreated and you formed a habit of saying "I'm used to it". 

You became a girl who kept being unappreciated and you began to tell yourself "It's okay".

 You became a girl who kept being undervalued and you learned how to say "I'm fine". 

You also became a girl who kept being put last and you naturally reacted with "It's whatever".

 You became a girl who kept being taken for granted and you dealt with it by repeating "Everything's okay". 

You became a girl who kept being unhappy and you regularly told people "I'm gonna be fine". 

And if you're reading this right now, then you need to ask your self a germane question....

  

Is this guy worth losing yourself for?   

Is this guy worth suffering for at the expense of your happiness?

 Is this guy worth tormenting yourself over for the sake of making him happy? 

At this point, perhaps losing him is the only way you would be able to get yourself back..

Kindly have a Re-think NOW. (Both Gender)

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GIRL AND A WOMAN

 DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GIRL AND A WOMAN

1. A girl knows how to demand.

A woman knows how to contribute.

2. Girls complain too often.

A woman will observe for a while, and then call her man's attention to the matter arising.

3. Girls can spend 5k on ice cream.

A woman can manage 5k to cook for a week.

4. A girl will wanna keep up with trends.

A woman will wanna consider her man's progress.

5. A girl will never ask how he manages.

Caring after him is a woman's priority.

6. A girl will measure her man's worth by the weight of his pocket.

A woman will measure her man's worth by his level of wisdom, the fear of God and how disciplined he can be towards finances.

7. A girl is naturally selfish, stubborn, and short sighted.

A woman is sacrificial, loyal, future oriented and family minded.

8. A girl wants everything now.

A woman waits until they can both attend to their needs as at when possible.

9. A girl is not considerate.

A woman helps her man to plan.

10. A girl will alwas think of the present

A woman will not only think of the present but the past and the future they both hope for.

You definitely must grow from being a girl to a woman, thanks for your time 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

BY AGE 30, YOU SHOULD BE OLD ENOUGH TO REALIZE THAT

 BY AGE 30, YOU SHOULD BE OLD ENOUGH TO REALIZE THAT 

📌Life doesn't wait for you to be okay. Get up every day and keep pushing through.

📌Never force anyone to choose you. You should learn the art of spending time alone. 

📌Master your emotions. A calm mind can handle any situation at any time anywhere. 

📌To avoid disappointment, you need to take people for who they are not for what you want them to be.

📌Everyone will show you who they are, just give them time. None pretends forever.

📌You're at peace with yourself when you mind your own business. What doesn't concern you, leave it. 

📌Ensure you take good care of yourself, if anything happens to you, the world will move on.

📌Nobody cares, work hard to get better every day. After all, you are on your own.

📌If you don't work to build your dream, someone will hire you and give you a purpose.

📌Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

📌30 years is too long to sit in an office being told what to do. Think about what you can do on your own.

📌You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life. 

📌Life is 100% better when no one knows anything about you. Privacy is a top tier.

📌You become ten times smarter when you quit the news and put politics out of your topics.

📌You need to be smart enough to create and make your opportunities, don't wait for them to come to you.

Take a whole different move this year. See the outcome. 💯🙏👑

BEFORE YOU BECOME A WIFE.. (Single ladies)

 BEFORE YOU BECOME A WIFE.. (Single ladies) 

1. HAVE SOUND VISION FOR YOUR LIFE. 

 You are more than a cook and baby factory.

You are on earth for a purpose.

What is your vision, what is your mission? What is your reason for existence?

Do you want to end up without fulfilling your purpose on earth all because of marriage?

Your marriage should not jeopardize your mission and vision rather it should contribute towards making them a realization. 

2. HAVE A SOURCE OF INCOME.

If you have no job or business you are doing, and you are looking for an ATM man to dump all your financial responsibility on, you will end up a leech, not a wife,a sucker, not a giver, a liability, not an asset,  a burden, not a burden bearer!

Get a job!

3. TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY. 

Some ladies are in their twenties and they look close to their graves, why?

How many children have you had?

Why are you not firm, smart, healthy, and attractive? 

If you have health issues, darling, pray for healing before you get married.

With faith, you will be healed. 

If you eat junk,  stop the trash and eat healthy food.

Too much sugar, red meat, and chocolates are not good for you.

They are waiting to affect your body in the future.

4. LEARN HOW TO ADDRESS A MAN. 

You don't talk to a man like your errand boy or primary schoolmate.

You talk to him as your head with respect and honor.

If you can't respect a man and regard him as the leader in your relationship, forget about marriage darling or you may end up divorced or a single mother. 

5. LEARN HOW TO COOK

See, men don't joke with their stomachs. Learn to cook different types of food and soup. Routine food eventually becomes tasteless and uninviting. 

Men love adventure.

Children love adventure.

Cooking different types of soup/food makes your husband stay at home and have no need to wander into bukaterias, cafeterias, eateries, etc where daughters of Jezebel may seduce and snatch him from you!

6. LEARN ABOUT SEX. 

Not by practicing for God's sake,  you are not yet married.

A few months/weeks before your wedding,  learn about your sexual anatomy, sexuality, reproductive organs, genitals,  etc. Be familiar with your body and prepare for quality sêx in MARRIAGE. 

I get too many chats from naive, ignorant brides and it gets to me.

Some even stay off sex for weeks or months on end after the wedding.

What's the meaning of that nonsense? 

▪️ Take a mirror and look at your vagina, labia minora, labia majora, clitoris, and vagina entrance, some say if you look close enough you will see your hymen. Each part has its functions in Marriage. 

7. BE A PRAYER MACHINE!

A woman who cannot pray is not ready for marriage!

Your husband has a great destiny to fulfill,  you have a great destiny to fulfill, your children have a great destiny to fulfill and the devil won't fold his arms and watch protect your family by soaking them in prayer! 

If you are a lazy spiritual bum as a single lady, your prayer life will end up a sorry case after marriage!

Before you become a wife,  prepare well so you do not help a failure in your husband's house.

🙏